5149306738 a32d0c0daa m pictureLauren Grodstein teaches creative writing at Rutgers-Camden and is the author of “A Friend of the Family,” which I reviewed yesterday.

A few nights ago, after yet another round of searching for the lost pacifier, I found myself, once again, unable to fall back asleep. The house was quiet – the kid snored, the husband snored, the cat snored at the landing at the base of the stairs. These three are frankly outstanding in their ability to go from alert to unconscious in the time it takes a normal person to sneeze. Meanwhile, once I’m up, I’m up – and, at three a.m., I’m usually ticked off, surrounded by snoring and pacifiers, wondering once again how I got into this mess. There was a time in my life when I slept, regularly, til noon! These days it’s a triumph if I’m still asleep at five-thirty.

However, on those occasions I’m able to go back to sleep, it’s usually due to the help of one of four books that now stake permanent territory on my nightstand. These books are well-written enough not to wake up my irritable inner grammar maven, but boring enough not to wake up my imagination, either. They’re like literary Ambien. This week, in honor of daylight savings, I’m sharing this list as a gift to all the exhausted parents out there, since I cannot give them the biggest gift of all: a child who sleeps through the night.

1. In Suspect Terrain, by John McPhee

John McPhee is a masterful reporter who’s done books on everything from oranges (fabulous) to Alaska (a bit meandering at times, but still well worth a read). However, in “In Suspect Terrain,” McPhee, alongside intrepid geologist Anita Harris, documents the geographical history of the eastern United States, spending a whole lot of time at the Delaware Water Gap and dropping mad knowledge about igneous rock and conodonts. The writing is lovely; the topic is dull as, literally, dirt. Four pages in I’m asleep and dreaming about sediment.

2. Fascinating Womanhood, by Helen B. Andelin

This gem is actually very absorbing the first few times you read it; it’s a 1960s guide to man-catching, akin to 1996’s The Rules, and full of such pearls as “Beneath his desire for worldly acclaim lies an even more intense yearning, and it is HIS DESIRE TO BE A HERO IN YOUR EYES. It is for this he lives and breathes.” (caps author’s). When I first read this book in my twenties, this advice seemed hugely amusing, but ten years later, with my hero fast asleep next to me, reading it not only knocks me out, it also knocks out my ability to feel any sort of amusement whatsoever.

3. The Moosewood Cookbook, by Mollie Katzen.

Virtuous vegetarian recipes; sweet black-and-white illustrations. Pass me some of that Arabian Squash-Cheese Casserole before I lose consciousness forever.

4. Lonely Planet Vancouver, by the Lonely Planet people.

Vancouver, as a city, has many of the same qualities I look for in a sleeping aid: it’s pleasing, calm, attractive, and, deep down, just the tiniest bit boring. Believe me, I love Vancouver the way any normal person loves maritime Canada, and I keep this guide on my nightstand because it’s as close as I’m going to get to the city any time soon. Nevertheless, what is Vancouver if not rainy weather, homemade scones, urban kayaking, and efficient public transportation? Just thinking about it makes me drowsy in the nicest possible way.

5161873461 676a159800 m pictureSo there you go: my four insomniac go-tos. If you have any suggestions of books that knock you out, please email me at laurengrodstein@yahoo.com. Three in the morning is coming all too soon, and believe me when I tell you I need all the help I can get.

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5149306738 a32d0c0daa m pictureA Friend of the Family by Lauren Grodstein
Published by Algonquin Books

Doctor Peter Dinzinoff seems to have it all: good friends, lovely house, successful practice, loving wife, and the child for which he and his wife had to try so hard. Really, it isn’t even an illusion of having it all, other than some tension between Pete and his son, his life really is going splendidly. Until it isn’t any longer. By the opening of “A Friend in the Family,” Pete has been kicked out of the house with his wife contemplating divorce and removed from his medical practice. He can no longer bring himself to answer his best friend’s phone calls and his son won’t speak to him. As he sits in his garage apartment and awaits a civil trial that could change his life for the better or for the worse, he begins reminiscing on what exactly brought him to this point, and remembering all the ways in which he has really been a very lucky man.

I have been reading a whole lot of really fabulous books lately, and “A Friend of the Family” is another in that line. Please prepare yourself for gushing (this seems to be happening at least once a week – not that I am complaining!).

“A Friend of the Family” is one of those books that I loved so much it is almost difficult to say why. The main thing is that Grodstein purely and simply wrote a book that I didn’t want to put down and, when I had to put it down, I counted the minutes until I could pick it back up again. Even more amazingly, she did so without histrionics or manufactured suspense. Although this is not a mystery per se, the reader is left wondering what exactly happened to cause Pete to lose everything. This desire to understand what happened flows out of a genuine regard for Pete and his friends and family created by Grodstein’s impeccable character development and sustained by flawless structure of the novel, with brief glimpses of the present amidst the flashback narrative. It does not always work well to have the majority of story told as flashbacks, but it definitely did in this case – I think it helped that the flashbacks proceeded in chronological order, so as not to perplex the reader. Although  I knew it would break my heart on his behalf, I simply had to find out what happened to Pete, as if he were a real person whose story I was hearing.

Love. Very, very highly recommend.

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5154417516 821317b84b m pictureThe Wolves of Andover by Kathleen Kent
Published by Reagan Arthur Books, an imprint of Hachette

This prequel to Kathleen Kent’s debut “The Heretic’s Daughter” follows the story of incredibly strong-willed Martha Allen during the years when she has essentially become an old maid, a woman uncourted and beginning to be a bit of an embarrassment to members of her extended family. They are not, however, above having her come and stay with a cousin having a difficult pregnancy whose husband is often away. Martha can be helpful in a case like this because she is not only a strong, good worker, but also accomplished as a midwife. It is at this cousin’s house that Martha is introduced to two men working her cousin’s land in order that they might be given parcels of land themselves the following year. One of them, Thomas Carrier, a man twice her age, begins to catch Martha’s interest after he saves her from a pair of wolves.

An incredibly tall man, Thomas Carrier may not be what he seems. Gossip around Billerica, Massachusetts suggests that Thomas Carrier might actually be Thomas Morgan, the Welshman who, on the orders of Oliver Cromwell, executed King Charles I during the English Civil War. Now that King Charles II has returned to the throne, he is determined to find those whose deeds took the life of his father the anointed King. The Puritans in the colonies are said to be hiding these men and Charles particularly wants the head of the man who struck off his father’s, preferably brought back in one piece so that Charles I’s executioner can be made a public example of. To this end a very shady character sends five men from England to the colonies to hunt down Thomas Morgan and bring him back in what ever form he might take.

Unlike “The Heretic’s Daughter,” it took me quite awhile to get into “The Wolves of Andover,” I was perhaps halfway through the book before I felt compelled to pick it back up again after putting it down. It seemed to lack some of the focus of “The Heretic’s Daughter,” which was given focus and structure just by virtue of the premise of the book. The reader knew what “The Heretic’s Daughter” was building towards from the beginning, but it was more difficult to find that same drive in “The Wolves of Andover” early on.

This may sound contradictory to what I just wrote, but I also wish the stories of the men hunting Thomas down had not begun quite so early in the story. It was perhaps meant to provide some of the direction I was lamenting, but instead it meant I took longer to get to know Martha as a character and figure out what was going on so again contributed to it taking longer to get into the story in general.

I do not want to give the impression that I did not enjoy “The Wolves of Andover,” I simply think the beginning could have been constructed in a way that would have pulled me in more quickly, instead of the relatively slow start it got in comparison with Kent’s first book. I also wish suspense had been built a bit more and a stronger sense of danger created later on in the book. All that being said, delving into the heart of Thomas Carrier’s story was absolutely fascinating. I loved the perspective he was able to share on the English Civil War and the rules of King Charles I and Oliver Cromwell.

Ultimately I can recommend “The Wolves of Andover” to those with an interest in this historical period, but I do not believe it is as strongly plotted as “The Heretic’s Daughter.”

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I feel a bit behind right now, because this is the first time I’ve opened my computer in over 36 hours. Friday coxwas my birthday and my husband and I were heading downtown for dinner at Trader Vic’s (hooray for Restaurants.com gift certificates, by the way). Daniel was with my inlaws and we figured he would just stay overnight because we would be out late. Well, imagine my surprise when we got downtown and the place we were parking was the Hyatt right on the river! We had a delicious dinner, came back to the hotel for more drinks, then slept the sleep of those without a baby in the next room liable to wake up at any minute. We got to sleep in, and then wander around the Mag Mile and State Street and it was very lovely. We had brunch at a restaurant called EATT which I chose primarily because their exterior advertised that they had Sandwiches * Coffee * Bread * Circuses, which gave me the history nerd giggles. All in all, an awesome birthday.

Really, that was just a great end to a great week. Last weekend my parents were in town, so we got to have a bunch of family around Daniel for his first real Halloween. Last year we dressed him up and stuck him in a pumpkin, but this was his first attempt at Trick or Treating. He got the concept and told people ‘boo,’ but was too shy to actually take the candy. He was a really, really cute mouse though (technically, he was the mouse from “If You Give A Mouse A Cookie”):

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This was a pretty good reading week too, especially because I spent a couple of days gushing over “A Friend Of The Family,” for which I’ll have both a review and a guest post this coming week. Here’s what I read:

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You’ll see most of those again this coming week in reviews. Speaking of reviews, here’s what I posted this past week (covers link to posts):

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I also did an Oh, D.E.A.R. post about the Maud Hart Lovelace books and launched my new feature Saturday Story Spotlight by talking about one of Daniel’s favorite books: “Baby Nose to Baby Toes.”

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Welcome to Saturday Story Spotlight, my new feature where I discuss books my husband and I are reading with our son, Daniel. These are books that he, we, or all of us particularly enjoy, since we are definitely reading more than one book a week! Also, if anyone is interested in helping me make a button for this feature, please let me know.

5140338085 ccbdeb3519 m pictureBaby Nose to Baby Toes by Vicki Ceelen
Published by Random House Books for Young Readers, an imprint of Random House

I thought I’d kick this Saturday Story Spotlight into high gear to start and open with Daniel’s favorite book OF ALL TIME. Of course, ‘of all time’ in this case means just over 16 months, but still. We’ve been reading this book to him since he was about three months old, and it has been a consistent favorite for that entire time.

The basic format of this book pairs a baby in a given post/making a certain face with a similar image of an animal.

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I enjoy the book for the rhythm of the words. I’ve found that occasionally the board books with pictures of real babies spend so much time on the image that the words seem as if they were mere afterthought with clunky cadence and overly forced rhyme. That is not the case here at all, everything flows very well.

It won’t be a surprise to anyone who has spent time around babies and toddlers that Daniel likes a book that has pictures of real babies, that seems to be a fairly universal. However, we have quite a few books with real babies in them and have borrowed even more from the library, and none has caught on like “Baby Nose to Baby Toes.” I think it is the juxtaposition of the babies with the animals that really draws him in. His favorite page reads “Baby’s clean as clean can get, puppy’s dripping, sopping wet.” It has a great picture of a baby in a bathtub, next to one of a wet Golden Retriever. Actually, I’m not sure if it is just his favorite picture in this book, it might be his favorite picture in any book he has ever read, he just loves that baby and that dog. He’ll sit with this book and just look at that page for 5+ minutes, occasionally telling me, “dog!” or “baby!”

Any book that a child can adore for over a year in a time when he is changing so rapidly is definitely one worth investing in, so I can very highly recommend “Baby Nose to Baby Toes.”

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5137323154 08cbae1731 m pictureThe Passionate Brood: A Novel of Richard the Lionheart and the Man Who Became Robin Hood by Margaret Campbell Barnes
Published by Sourcebooks

After Henry VIII, Richard I, otherwise known as Richard Coeur de Lion or Richard the Lionheart, is probably one of England’s best known kings. Perhaps this notoriety derives from his snappy nickname and his association with the Crusades, but I would argue that a large part as well comes from his reign being the background of the legend of Robin Hood. In “The Passionate Brood,” Campbell Barnes combines historical fiction of Richard’s life – from before the death of his older brother and father until his own death – with the the Robin Hood legend. In this version, Robin is the son of Hodierna, the Plantagenet nursemaid, and Richard’s own best friend and foster brother until he regretfully declines to join Richard on his crusade and is outlawed by the passionate king.

“You got legend in my historical fiction!”
“You got historical fiction in my legend!”
Two great genres, better together!

Sorry, that’s out of my system now.

Anyway, I really enjoyed how Barnes worked the legend of Robin Hood realistically into Richard’s reign. It all made sense and flowed completely naturally from both Richard and Robin’s characters. I think the historical legend/fantasy is always that which is well-integrated into solid history.

That being said, i was slightly disappointed to find that Robin was really just a supporting character to Richard’s story in “The Passionate Brood.” Considering that the second half of the subtitle is “…and the Man Who Became Robin Hood” I really expected to see more of Robin’s story once the two men part ways, perhaps cut between Richard on his crusade and Robin adjusting to life as an outlaw. Instead, “The Passionate Brood” dealt more with how the memory of Robin’s character and the guilt over the mens’ estrangement worked on Richard psyche, which was still very interesting, just different than I expected.

Well written an interesting, I can definitely recommend Margaret Campbell Barnes’ “The Passionate Brood.”

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Do you remember D.E.A.R? At my elementary school that meant “Drop Everything And Read,” something we typically did for 10 or 15 minutes every day. Best part of my day, really. As my TBR and Library piles are battling for supremacy and trying to sneak in around the review copies who have staked out places on my calendar, I’m thinking back to the simpler days of D.E.A.R., when I believed I had time to get to any book I wanted. And that, of course, got me fantasizing about a world where I really could just Drop Everything And Read for more than just 15 minutes a day.

There is a series that I totally missed out on as a child, and that makes me very sad. Happily, though, Harper Collins has been re-releasing these books over the past year or so and the fabulous Book Club Girl is a huge evangelist for them, and convinced me to try them.

Reader, they are the Betsy-Tacy books by Maud Hart Lovelace, and they are fabulous.

There are four Betsy-Tacy books that begin when Betsy and Tacy are in Kindergarten, I believe, and increase in reading difficulty as the girls age and the reader ages along with them. I haven’t read these yet, but if I have a little girl, you had better believe that I will be snapping them up right away.

The books I have begin with Betsy and Tacy’s freshman year of high school, and go through the two years following high school So far I have only read the first two works, which Harper Collins has bound in a single book (which is great, but also makes this confusing to talk about, just a little), “Heaven to Betsy” and “Betsy in Spite of Herself,” which I reviewed last year.

5126202776 5292472bfd m pictureI loved it so much, but sadly I haven’t had a chance to get back to the other books (4 works packaged into 2 books) just yet, partially because I loaned them to my friend who just had a baby, figuring they were perfect post-partum reads: They are fun, yet not frivolous, easy, but not worthless. The Betsy-Tacy books are the same sort of deeply comforting read as “Anne of Green Gables.” I’ve only just gotten the books back, so if I could just Drop Everything and Read, I would start by finishing the Betsy-Tacy series, “Betsy Was a Junior” and “Betsy and Joe,” then “Betsy and the Great World” and “Betsy’s Wedding.”

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However, since I don’t believe there is any such thing as too much Deep Valley (the place where Betsy and Tacy live in Minnesota), I wouldn’t stop there. Harper Collins has released two more editions of Lovelace’s work, “Emily of Deep Valley,” as well as another two work edition, “Carney’s House Party” and “Winona’s Pony Cart.”

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If you want more information about “Betsy-Tacy,” Maud Hart Lovelace, or Deep Valley, I have links!

You could start with Mitali Perkins and Melissa Wiley, who wrote the forewords of the new editions

Meg Cabot wrote an essay in the Wall Street Journal about the books

Harper Collins allows you browse inside the books

Book Club Girl on Air will have a show featuring Mitali Perkins and Melissa Wiley on November 15

Or if you want to attend an event in person you can at the Magers & Quinn Booksellers Party in Minneapolis on November 7, the Mitali Perkins event at Brookline Booksmith on November 13, or with Melissa Wiley at the Readers, Inc. Betsy-Tacy rerelease party on November 20th.

 

5124116824 27f9c170cf m pictureC Street: The Fundamentalist Threat to American Democracy by Jeff Sharlet, narrated by Jeremy Guskin
Published by Hachette Audio/Little, Brown and Company, both imprints of Hachette

Synopsis:

If you think the religious fundamentalists who most threaten American values live in the Middle East, Jeff Sharlet has some news for you: there is an elite religious-political organization who is a much greater threat to the essence of America than any foreign fundamentalists wielding bombs and aircraft. Perhaps you assume that Sharlet is referring to the Tea Party movement, Sarah Palin and her ilk, but no. Instead, Sharlet is writing about an organization thoroughly entrenched in establishment power called The Family, about whom he has previously written a book (titled, appropriately enough, “The Family”). The same organization that began the National Prayer Breakfast, which most politicians in Washington fail to attend at their own peril. The Family takes much of its mission from Acts 9:15:

But the Lord said to Ananias, “Go! This man is my chosen instrument to carry my name before the Gentiles and their kings and before the people of Israel. (NIV)

Which it strangely interprets to mean that it ONLY needs to minister to and attempt to convert ‘the kings,’ which in the United States evidently means governors, senators, presidents, and congressmen. So, they do their best to convert and ‘help’ those in power, with the idea that someone is in power not because of any of his or her own deeds but solely because God put him or her there. This, of course, means that the ends justify the means in any situation and power should be gained and maintained at all costs, since clearly God ordained this power structure. It probably gives you a good enough idea of their mindset to tell you that they idolize Hitler and Lenin for the power that those men had, although they of course say they want to use this power for Jesus.

In addition to a description of the The Family itself, Sharlet also discusses their religious-political progeny in Uganda who are trying to enact legislation to criminalize homosexuality to the point where ‘aggravated’ homosexuality (repeat offense) will be punishable by death and ‘promotion’ of homosexuality will be punishable by imprisonment. The section on fundamentalism in the military – it is particularly well entrenched in the Airforce – was also particularly frightening for the degree to which it is part of the establishment and people of other religions are harassed.

Thoughts on the story:

I listened to this about a week before Halloween and boy, I cannot imagine anything scarier. You want to give me nightmares? Skip the zombies and vampires, give me men in the highest ranks of power in this country, and influencing those in the highest ranks of power in this country who emulate the power of Hitler and Lenin. That being said, I thought that Sharlet communicated this threat in a very clear manner, both in terms of organization and language. The one thing I thought odd was his re-imagining – twice – of speeches which Mark Sanford might have given, had his lies and infidelities not been discovered. In the midst of such a factual and well-researched book, these suppositions seemed out of place and perhaps even inappropriate. Other than that, though, it was all very well done, as well as compelling (and absolutely terrifying). I should note, that even as a Christian myself I was absolutely horrified by the confluence of political power and religion here.

Thoughts on the audio production:

I wasn’t entirely sure about Jeremy Guskin at the beginning of “C Street,” but I grew accustomed to his style after about 5 minutes and actually really appreciated his narration. He did include vocal variations for emotion and expression, but primarily kept his voice steady, without becoming monotone. I thought it served Sharlet’s journalistic background and style very well.

Overall:

I definitely recommend this book if you are interested in the intersection of power and religion in America. Whether the audio or print is preferable probably depends on how in-depth you wish to go into Sharlet’s account. I was happy just letting everything wash over me – I was horrified enough as it was – but other have said they would have preferred this in print so they could take time with the details. Your call.

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5123065679 1c2ee2b958 m pictureThe Heroine’s Bookshelf by Erin Blakemore
Published by Harper, an imprint of Harper Collins

I doubt that any reader of this blog would debate the idea that books have much to teach us, perhaps even more, at times, than the author intended. Erin Blakemore certainly believes that this is true, and her goal in “The Heroine’s Bookshelf” is to suss out some of the fabulous female characters created by fabulous female authors who have so much to teach today’s heroines. “The Heroine’s Bookshelf” is divided into twelve sections with titles such as “Self,” “Dignity,” and “Compassion” and covers women like Jo March, Scarlett O’Hara, and Lizzy Bennet. Each chapter briefly outlines the life of the author and the premise of the book, weaving in the arguments for why the author and character exemplify and can teach us the stated virtue of the chapter. Additionally, each chapter ends with a bullet pointed list of three times when you should read the book in question, and the literary sisters/kindred spirits of the character discussed.

Oh, “The Heroine’s Bookshelf,” you have earned yourself a permanent place on my bookshelf!

Blakemore’s book is an absolutely lovely and engaging read. I ended up finishing it in less than 24 hours because every time I finished reading about one heroine, I wanted to see what Blakemore had to say about the next one. Each chapter was both nostalgic and informative, bringing me new and interesting information about even the authors and characters who were most beloved by me. I only wish that I had spaced out the chapters and savored the book, because I was very sad when I found I had reached the end. No matter, though, because just like the books Blakemore writes about, “The Heroine’s Bookshelf” is something that I will be able to go back to again and again when I need reminders and encouragements about dealing with life’s difficulties.

I highly, highly, highly recommend “The Heroine’s Bookshelf” by Erin Blakemore. I think the ideal audience is women 15 to 35, but I imagine than many others would enjoy it as well. However, if you have a readerly woman 15-35 on your Christmas list, BUY THIS FOR HER NOW. There, your shopping is done! Whether she has read all of the classics, or is a Twilight or Harry Potter-created reader unsure where to go next, this is sure to be a big hit.

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Now for a little game: Can you match the heroines with the virtues they represent (as per “The Heroine’s Bookshelf”)?

Virtue Heroine
A: Ambition 1. Anne Shirley in “Anne of Green Gables”
B: Compassion 2. Celie in “The Color Purple”
C: Dignity 3. Claudine in Colette’s Claudine novels
D: Faith 4. Francie Nolan in “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn”
E: Family Ties 5. Jane Eyre in “Jane Eyre”
F: Fight 6. Janie Crawford in “Their Eyes Were Watching God”
G: Happiness 7. Jo March in “Little Women”
H: Indulgence 8. Laura Ingalls in “The Long Winter”
I: Magic 9. Lizzy Bennet in “Pride and Prejudice”
J: Self 10. Mary Lennox in “The Secret Garden”
K: Simplicity 11. Scarlett O’Hara in “Gone with the Wind”
L: Steadfastness 12. Scout Finch in “To Kill a Mockingbird”

Answers can be found at the bottom of this post.

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Answers: A7, B12, C2, D6, E4, F11, G1, H3, I10, J9, K8, L 5

 

5118151083 8cf0c723b0 m pictureAll I Can Handle, I’m No Mother Theresa: A Life Raising Three Daughters with Autism by Kim Stagliano
Published by Skyhorse Publishing

If you can’t tell from the title of the book, Kim Stagliano is in the unique and unenviable far more common than I realized and unenviable, to many, position of having three daughters who have autism, a condition which more typically affects boys. This, combined with her husband’s incredibly bad luck with employment – he had a tendency for many years to take employment with companies who would not have a need for him after a short amount of time – has made life in the Stagliano household a bit chaotic. Kim has a very pragmatic attitude towards her life, however. She makes the point that autism (and unemployment, for that matter) don’t take time off, so neither can she, really as a mother you just do what you have to do.

“All I Can Handle, I’m No Mother Theresa” could have easily been one giant downer between the challenges of raising three daughters with pretty severe autism (one daughter gets lost twice in a single family trip, panicking Kim both times) and having multiple job losses and financial crises. However, enough of Stagliano’s wit and humor shines through, keeping the book, well, perhaps not light, but at least not depressing.

Anyone interested in autism or the lives of families living with autism would do well to pick up “All I Can Handle, I’m No Mother Theresa.” You may not agree with everything Stagliano says and believes (there is a LOT of controversy around autism issues), but you will absolutely learn a lot.

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